Things to DO

Send them an encouraign text message

Remember anniversaries - special days, birthdays, anniversaries - wedding, dating anivsersaries, work anniversaries, day they were diangosed anniveraries, death anniversary, summer holidays - going to the lake, holidays

Givei them space

Offer things with an ou t "Holidays are stressful in general but now that there is grief in addition, if you need to sneak away at all this weeend, let me knwo and I'll pick you up for a covert up.' Make asolid suggestion that is specific but doesn't put them on the spot or feel like it was a one time, timely offer. 

You wanna hang out ? Talking can or can't be included.