For a friend in a breakfup L

Listen 

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Ask them what they want - BS likes to be reminded with RV sucks 

Don't patronize them with "his loss"  --- do help them understand tat it's not a you think, it's a him thin g if relevant 

Remember that these things can't be fixed with one quick verbal suggestion - it's ok to feel the feels they gotta emote and get it out.   ITElling them to "get over it" is not the flip of a switch. They have to feel, then heal, then unerstand what it is they need to move on and it's al a processe. They are allowed to be sad fo ra little bit. Help them seat deadlines for themselves and ask them what goals and milestones you can support - wana leave the house sat? Pick them up for the outing. Want to invest time in something else good? Volunteer with them - let them pick the cuase.